The Power and Relentless Determination of a Mothers Love.


Through the slit of the burqa she wore to blend in on the streets of Alexandria, Egypt, Kalli Atteya waited and watched until the boy climbed off the school bus. When she saw him, she moved quickly, grabbing his arm and steering him toward the waiting motorized cart.

“Get in,” she said to the 12-year-old, who recognized his mother’s piercing blue eyes and obeyed wordlessly.

Soon, they were speeding toward a safehouse where they would wait for three weeks before returning to the U.S., and ending a 20-month ordeal that began with another abduction — one the boy, Khalil Mohamed “Niko” Atteya, did not accept willingly. His father, Mohamed Atteya, who is wanted by the U.S. authorities, is accused of luring the mother and son to his homeland, then snatching the boy and leaving Kalli Atteya and her sister on the side of a desolate road between Cairo and Port Said on Aug. 1, 2011.

“My Dad forced me to be Muslim, which I did not want to do,” Niko, who has been back in Pennsylvania for more than a month, told

A world away, he had a determined mother who would spare no expense and even risk her own safety to save her boy. After a torturous struggle that included false leads, false hopes and more than $100,000 spent, Kalli Atteya finally showed what the love and determination of a mom can do

“I was really nervous, but I was bound and determined to take my son,” she told during an interview in Chambersburg, Pa., near where Atteya and her son now live.

With the help of a local guide, the 45-year-old mother had tracked her only child and her ex-husband, a man she had married more than a dozen years earlier, after meeting him at the Harrisburg, Pa., restaurant where he worked as a dishwasher. Mohamed Atteya, 38, who speaks Arabic, English and Chinese, and is wanted by the U.S. State Department’s Bureau of Diplomatic Security Service for making false statements and providing forged documents to obtain a U.S. passport, had no idea his tenacious ex-wife was on his trail.

“I followed him,” Kalli Atteya said. “I mean, I came really close to him several different times. [Mohamed] didn’t recognize me, but my son did and when he saw me for the first time, he turned pale.”

When the time came, neither mom nor son hesitated.

“My first reaction was [to wonder] if that was my mom or not, and then I saw her eyes,” Niko said. “I thought, ‘Thank God. I’m going to finally get out of here. I’m going to be free.’”

These days, Niko is preparing to be home-schooled soon and begin his long reintegration process. He hopes to one day play football on his junior high school team and is grateful to be back in America. His mother is happy, too, though there is the constant fear that Mohamed Atteya will again appear in their lives, tracking down his son and trying once again to drag the boy back to Egypt and force him to live as a strict Muslim.

“My son told me [it was] to make him a Muslim,” Atteya replied when asked why she thought her ex-husband snatched the boy. “He said that we lack the morality and the values that their system has. And he said that Americans were so violent, he said we are a rotting society.”

Kalli Atteya’s fears are stoked by the vivid memory of the downward spiral of their marriage that culminated in the cruel betrayal that almost cost her her son.

It was in 1999 when Kalliopi “Kalli” Panagos fell hard for Mohamed Atteya. Within a year, they married and moved to nearby Chambersburg. But trouble began shortly after Niko’s birth in July of 2000.

“Three months after our boy was born, he left,” Kalli Atteya told “He moved back to Harrisburg, and he dated many, many women. I tried to save my marriage but it didn’t work. Basically, he married me for a visa.”

After years of failed reconciliation attempts, the couple divorced in 2005. Mohamed Atteya briefly stayed in Harrisburg before moving to China, where he focused on his exporting business. Niko remained with his mother, who stayed in contact with her ex-husband.

“Mohamed always had a thing for moving everywhere all the time,” Kalli Atteya said. “But we talked all the time. He would tell me he still loved me — to string me along, I guess.”

Some six years later, during the height of the Egyptian revolution, Mohamed Atteya convinced his ex-wife to come with their son to meet his dying mother. Kalli was reluctant, but finally agreed, and her sister, Maria Panagos, came along for support.

“He kept pushing and pushing until I finally relented,” Kalli Atteya said. “I didn’t want his mother to die without seeing her grandson.”

During the second night of their stay in Egypt, Mohamed began asking for his son’s passport, Kalli recounted. Several times, he tried to take him off for a “man talk,” she said. Then, on Aug. 1, 2011, Mohamed Atteya made his move as the group traveled from Cairo to Port Said. He complained of car trouble and forced Kalli and Maria Panagos out of the car in extreme heat, leaving Niko, himself and a driver to speed away.

“Mohamed threw me off to the side and ran to the car,” she said. “I remember seeing [Maria] dragging behind the car as my son pounded on the windows. It was so unreal to me. At that very moment, I knew this was all preplanned.”

Local authorities were less than helpful, and with no idea where her former husband had taken their son, Kalli turned to a Norwegian company for help. With each new bit of hope came a new charge until she had spent more than $100,000, depleting her savings and funds borrowed from relatives. Still, she seemed no closer to reuniting with her son.

Kalli Atteya, who had already visited Egypt three times since the seeing her ex-husband drive off with their son, returned again in October, more determined than ever to bring back her boy. A local man whom she does not want to identify helped her find them and pull off the rescue.

But Kalli will feel safer when the man she once loved is locked away and can no longer haunt the dreams of her and her son.

State Department officials told they are aware of Atteya’s case, but declined to provide further details due to privacy concerns.

“One of the Department’s highest priorities is the welfare of U.S. citizens overseas,” the statement reads. “This is particularly true for children, who our most vulnerable citizens.”

Attorney Jeffrey Evans, who lobbied a local district attorney to file charges against Atteya, acknowledged the possibility of his return to the U.S. in search of Niko.

“I do think it is a possibility because what he accomplished while here to set up the abduction was pretty impressive,” Evans said of Atteya’s alleged forgery on Niko’s birth certificate and passport.

But Evans said he’d also never bet against Kalli, who is now working toward finishing her master’s degree in special education now that she can again focus on bettering herself.

“If there was ever a testament to the power of a mother’s love, she embodies that,” Evans said. “She persevered through some very dark times. She showed a tenacity that not many would have. She really is something special.”SOURCE


With Mothers Day approaching I could not pass up this story that reads like a movie. I am in awe of this woman and her determination in an area of the world where her own life was truly at risk. My hat is off to her and my sincere wishes that she will maintain custody of her son. I believe this one of the greatest expressions of love I have seen in the news lately. Rock on Moms all over this world!!!!



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  1. Thank you for sharing, and God bless you, Troy.

  2. The story just struck me as quite powerful. God Bless.

  3. A mother’s greatest fear is the abduction of her child..the horror of having to face the fact that you might never know if your child is safe and well. This is a wonderful story and I thank you for sharing it! I’m so glad it had a happy outcome..many don’t. Abductions by parents are fraught with legal issues and it is even worse when your child has been hidden overseas.

    • I agree when they are kept overseas there are often many barriers to getting the child back if the child can even be located. This week we also saw a miraculous event as those three women held captive in Ohio for all those years are now back with their families. I know their lives are forever changed but their captor’s life is also about to be forever changed.It is another inspiring story of inner strength conquering evil. Many would have given up hope after such a long time.

      • And, isn’t it a wonderful thing that these women were saved. I hope the press gives them the time to heal and move on.

        I just watched the news and heard the man who kidnapped, raped and tortured these children/women has had a bond set in his case. Although I doubt he can raise 8 million, my question is why does he qualify for bond?

      • I cannot for the life of me understand any judge setting any bond on this guy. He should never know any form of freedom again. My opinion of course. He is on suicide watch, my thought is what a coward, unwilling to face the consequences he brought upon himself.

      • Cowards don’t commit suicide.

      • For the most part thats true, one must remember what he faces once in Prison though….There are some crimes even the most hardened inmates don’t like.

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